Yes, some dismissive avoidants do people please. They can seem sweet, attuned, even emotionally available at first… But over time, the closeness overwhelms them—because they’re tuned in to your emotions, not their own. Without clear boundaries and emotional insight, they often vanish just when you start to get close. Learn what this pattern really means and how to break free from the push-pull confusion. Have you ever felt blindsided by someone who seemed so emotionally available at first? Comme