Some relationships have normal ups and downs, while others get caught in the drama of ambivalence. Your relationship is ‘fine’ or even ‘good’ and also ‘terrible’ at the same time. One minute you are watching a film together, the next you are mentally filing for divorce. One minute you are holding hands, the next you are screaming in rage. One minute you are playing with your child together, the next packing a bag to leave. Again. I am a couples therapist, and on my channel, I share gentle, prove